In the ways of health and fitness stuff there are some common questions that I get frequently.
One being… “Do you count calories?”
Short answer. No. I find it to be a total drag.
Nowwww… if you’re a happy calorie counter don’t get upset here πΒ it does and can have it’s place in helping you understand your calorie intake. It just doesn’t need to be a life long thing you must do. With all the apps out there today keeping track of your intake has never been easier. (just make sure you’re brutally honest about exact amounts of everything you eat) AND understand exactly how many calories you need to lose weight and sustain your activities.
When I started my health and fitness journey ( 8 years next month!) one of the things I set out for myself was to not have to follow a certain set of restrictive rules.
By that I honestly mean, I got rebellious with those rules every time I decided to knock a few pounds off. I didn’t like being boxed into what worked for someone else.
I didn’t want to be told what to do when or what I “had” to eat.
Consequently, I dropped it like a bad habit after a couple weeks of dieting/calorie counting/ eat this meal thing.
You know what worked and what I developed over time ?
I built new habits.
Slowly, steadily, one day at a time plodding along. If I had a day that bombed ( and trust me, I did) I didn’t throw in the towel, I just kept on going.
My new habits meant listening to my body’s God given signals for hunger and being satisfied. When you sit down and are truly hungry food tastes amazing in a different kinda way. I ate enough to satisfy my hunger and stopped.
I learned if I wasn’t hungry at the next meal I wasn’t obligated to eat just ’cause the chow bell dinged.
I didn’t restrict foods or label any as “bad” or eat only salad and rice cakes.
Moderation became my motto. I ate what I wanted but listened to my body’s signals.
I didn’t need to clean my plate…. when I was comfortable I stopped… not when I felt stuffed or heavy feeling… gosh I hate how that feels and rarely let myself go there now days.
Unfortunately, most of the world loves to continue to feed their mouth long after the tummy is satisfied. The outcome? excess pounds.
So in building some new habits of eating when I was truly hungry, and stopping when I was satisfied, and training myself to eat natural and healthy foods the majority of the time I lost weight but wasn’t dependent on calorie counting. I was listening to my body and it’s specific needs.
You can do the same thing. It takes daily discipline and a tenacious, stubborn spirit to not give up, but I tell you it’s complete freedom when you nail down these new habits. Complete freedom.
After almost 8 years… I think it’s working π
Tell me… do you count calories? Do you find it helpful? Or feel it’s something you must do? And if so, do you ever feel enslaved to having to do it ? Or do you know your needs and listen to your body and go by that as your guide?
Too many people view calorie counting as the only way to lose weight but I absolutely hate it! I’ve tried it off and on over the years but it never helped me develop better habits. I did keep a food journal for a while just to help me get an idea of how much and when I was eating and that did help. I’m continuing to build on the same foundation you’re on and creating new habits, eating when I’m hungry, stopping when I’m full, and eating real food.
I have friends who count calories and it drives me crazy but I just nod politely when they tell me how many calories they have left for the day or how many calories are in whatever we’re eating. I just want to enjoy the company I’m with and the food without worrying about or knowing they’re worrying about calories.
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Oh so true and good for you! Yes, keeping a food journal is a great way to become more aware of what you eat in a day. To often people dismiss the little things when it all adds up. And like you, I just wanna enjoy life and not focus on that stuff. Operating in “moderation mode” allows me to enjoy what I want, in small amounts, and still be satisfied =) Stay on course you’re doing great!
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I agree, it’s a drag, but it keeps me accountable. After gaining nearly 10 lbs over the last couple years, I found I need to really focus on getting myself back to where I need to be. I don’t however, force it on others.
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I’d say I’m somewhere in the middle. As many of us in the nutrition profession, there is or has been an unhealthy relationship with food. I think I will always “be aware” of calories but will never again be the girl who counts every oz that passes her lips. π Love your blog, btw. Inspirational and refreshing π
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That’s a good way to put it… being aware… good for you for having that freedom… and thank you for your kind words =)
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You are very welcome! I am very intrigued by your blog and I wish more “health” concious blogs were real and honest about the difficulties of eating well vs dieting. Diet culture is damaging and like you said, eat to live not live to eat!!! π
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