Am I the only one who gets excited over the idea of an untouched planner and a good pen for the year ahead?
Hello 2026
When I get to December I always like to look back at the normal life entries and other things that were perhaps fun and exciting, like a beautiful trip I took to Sedona Arizona in May.
2025 was filled with adventures, personal growth and healing, work, family, new opportunities and a hopeful future.
2025, growth in grief
The past year has held a lot of behind the scenes healing and renewal in my life that had been rocked with the loss of my husband in 2023.
Writing has always been therapeutic for me but I heavily journaled after his loss as a way to cope with all of the emotions and pain that came with it.
My painful journaling has gradually given way to more hope and promise. Of healing and smiling through memories and treasuring them in my heart as I’ve continued to move forward.
Being able to look back in such a concrete way let’s me see how much I’ve healed, grown, learned and survived. Some of those pages though, bleed so heavily I weep reading them.
I praise God for the woman he has grown from the ashes. I praise him for the beauty of this past year and all it brought to me.
I praise him for this new year and my future.
My biggest blessing of 2025 was a proposal from a beautiful man God brought to me in the ashes of my grief. ❣️
That ring 💍 😍
So I end 2025 beyond grateful and thankful for sooo many things. I start 2026 with eager anticipation for the year ahead with all of its new ” firsts” and a hopeful future. This year will be its own story and I eagerly look forward to writing it.
Share with me some of your reflections from your year and what you look forward to in 2026.
8 years ago I began what I now refer to as my "journey into lifestyle fitness". After a yearly check in with my Dr he said I looked "really good on paper, but I might consider losing a few pounds" I wasn't offended... I knew I needed to but it seemed like to much work at the time. In that year we had adopted 2 girls out of foster care, plus caring for my 3 sons & husband sort of left me on the back burner taking care of "me". I told him I "used to" walk & he encouraged me to at least get back to that. I left his office that day, started, & never quit. As time moved on my walks increased in length & speed. I started mingling some jogging into it...then after more time some short sprints. One day I realized I was doing more running than anything else. I learned to run longer and farther. I constantly challenged myself to do more. I realized I had turned into a runner & was loving it. I have since run 6 half marathons, 2 full marathons, and my first 50K scheduled for March 1,2015. Not bad for a girl who just started off walking not quite 2 miles! My body was now beginning to show the results of my work as weight & inches dropped off. I began to add in boxing & weights on days I wasn't running. Over time as the fat left, my new muscles were waiting underneath =)
Obviously, I also made some food changes. Nothing drastic..just started eating less and trying to eat better.. I hated diets and how they made me feel....deprived & left out of all the fun...so adjusting & eating less of what I liked and moving more.. I found myself getting in decent physical shape. It began my thinking of lifestyle and not "dieting". As I got stronger,healthier & more fit it was an easier process to "let go" of some of the foods I had enjoyed. I had more energy, strength and confidence in what I could do. It was empowering. It made me realize that I probably wasn't the only one who wanted to lose weight, be healthy & strong but not always be on some sort of "diet". Maybe my journey & what I had learned & been doing might possibly help others to success in their lives...
I consider myself to be rather normal and ordinary ( meaning I haven't always been into fitness and healthy eating) it has been a steady, daily, learned process with good days and bad days and my hope is that you too, will see the greatness in you, and that you have the ability and power to change and do anything you put your mind to. If you want change, you can make it happen. It's just one day at a time, making smart moves and better choices, and before you know it, things are happening.
Get started on your journey, really, what do you have to lose ? And yet, so much to gain =)
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